In first place, Please AVOID NRI MATCHES.
Non Reliable Indians marriage proposals. Otherwise, your life sucks in a foreign land.
REMEMBER: Ignorance of laws and immigration laws is NOT an excuse.
The above picture speaks a lot. Indians in India thinks that since she married to an H-1B, her life is SET in America. But it is the reverse case, her life get screwed up in a foreign country either stupid Indian husband beats or not. That is H4 curse Visa or any non immigrant dependent visas. Because H-1B= indentured servitude, dependents of Indentured servitude = direct hell on the earth. I do not know how many people understand this from the other side of the globe while reading this.
H4 Domestic violence –how to report bad H-1B Husband
Honestly, no one understand your situation. Neither the government of USA nor India. You have to fight for yourself. BE STONG and BE BOLD.
Here you go:
The main culprits are parents of a girl child in India. Because the parents of India want a foreign based son-in-law for their daughter without enquiring anything about him or the USA immigration issues. So that lead to this disasters situation. The world is men dominated society and India or Asia is completely MEN dominated. With this mindset, how come parents send their daughter(s) with an unknow person to abroad? What happens if that person beat your daughter? Does she educated or trained to complain to local police in that country? If not, what for that marriage? Sex slavery?
I think or guess that both USA and India are cheating the Indian women in both in USA and INDIA especially those are on non immigrant visas and facing domestic violence’s in a foreign country. First she loses her immigration status for complaining against her husband who is a primary applicant. Secondly she loses her children to husband. third, deported from the country. Not just H4, any dependent visa is a disastrous visa in the USA.
Domestic Violence – Subscriber’s story
Several Indian women on Dependent Visas(example H4 Visa, primary is H-1B work permit visa) are living in the USA. Since India is a male dominated society hence Indian women also work like slaves to their husbands in the USA. One of such woman kicked out to India by a husband by telling lies that he got a job in India and coming to India in the next flight and disconnected her and his daughter or sons. He stayed back in the USA.
Issue is, he H-1B applied for divorce where H4 Indian woman is in India and court awarded the divorce to them.
ABOUT DOMESTIC VIOLIENCE :
On the instructions of his parents and sister he used to beat me. In 2009 Jan when me and my daughter came to USA for the second time, he beat me very badly that I bleed a lot. He used harass me sexually physically and with irritating language or foul language. One day he locked me and my daughter in the bathroom as guided by his sister and later some other day he locked me in the room and he kept the 2 yrs old baby outside the room and he did a marital rape and harassed me a lot. The kid started crying as she was alone in the midnight I hardly get rid of him and attended my child after an hour. he used to warn me if I go for police he would harm the kid and my father. I was scared and I did inform the USA police.
ABOUT THE RENEWAL OF HER US BORN CHILD PASSPORT : My Child passport has been expired on Jan 2015. I contacted my husband through email but he never responded. Aa I already went for passport renewal and then they asked for fathers signature or ds 3035 form signed by the father. He did not give me any form but the attorney in the letter mentioned that he gave me the form. That was a false statement. Yet the child passport has to be renewed.
ABOUT THE CASES IN INDIA about HUSBAND : 498- a Which was a dowry harassment case . Section 9 Hindu Marriage Act and Maintenance case. He escaped to USA before filing the charge sheet in the court which was another crime offense.
There is a famous whistleblower American who projects himself as he tries to help Indian victims also cheated her by taking money and could not do anything to Indians. He is simply a bogus guy won’t help anyone. he also claims H-1Bs are low skilled replace Americans but same time, he is cheating several H-1Bs and H4 victims.
Careful when you trust Americans and Indians in the USA. Including attorneys in USA and lawyers in India.
Help needed: About US child passport renewal, H-1B father divorced, refused to sign as parent
Brief: She, an Indian sister lived on H4 VISA in the USA, her husband involved in domestic violence after having a baby girl delivered. He told a lie that the project is over and sent them (wife and daughter) to India and he stayed back in the USA and applied for a divorce. She approached me via YouTube Comments. One of the Famous American whistleblowers who projects himself as a savior to displaced americans and H-1B victims and H4 victims or GC fraud marriage American victims and cheated her by taking $1500 for attorney fees to fight for justice and it was proved to be bogus. Finally she received the divorce papers from the USA to India. The courts or laws in the USA also in favor of accused just like in India and awarded her divorce by asking her to attend the court hearings. As you know it is impossible to come to USA on H4 visa when she was having VISA expired and H-1B departed from her and the child.
Now her daughter is facing the issues:
Here you go:
She applied for her child passport in October. Today She received a call from the Embassy that other parent is NOT willing to sign, and She should have child whole custody to renew. Is there any way to renew her child’s US passport as the other parent (father on H-1B in USA) is NOT in touch with the mother and daughter.
One more issue is without USA passport could not stay in India with mother. If she has USA passport, they will give permission to stay in India. Otherwise, they(mother and daughter) cannot get permission.
KE: Dear Sister,
https://kumarexclusive.com/kumars-tips/h4-domestic-violence/
Can you contact people (victims) in this link.
That Punjabi woman or Suman TV etc,
H4 Victim from India: dint get answers actually
But she just needs to know how to get full custody of Child April 11th 2023 is the last day. Before that she needs to get Full Custody Of Child and submit The custody Papers to the Embassy.
She has already explained the situation to me. No use. They don’t follow regular procedures for special cases.
KE: What if you give that US Passport permanently and take Indian citizenship?
Victim: the child will not have any restrictions to stay in India with me. Father is not there. At Least she must be able to stay with me
Cannot take Indian citizenship without US PASSPORT as she is USA CITIZEN
Currently she doesn’t have permission to stay in India
Public comments
She is fraud NRI sister she is saying that if your husband is having affair with someone you need to keep everything in your heart you should not tell to anyone wahh what type of a women she.she kept her husband in her grip.she even don't know how to take care of her baby. pic.twitter.com/KhiIaSzZsO
— Ramya mari (@ramyaswathi26) January 28, 2023
See how his mother behaves in public she don't have any shame at all she is encouraging his son to give divorce. She is a fraud NRI mother she wants privacy to talk with his son. I don't know what type of privacy they both want. She is already on anticipatory bail. pic.twitter.com/yRk7uEpc99
— Ramya mari (@ramyaswathi26) January 25, 2023
Respected sir please check criminal records of my husband mahesh Mari lives in US Texas san antonio married me only for 3 months he took my gold money and ranaway he is marriage fraud criminal case is going in india LOC issued on him hiding himself in US.
Please deport him.— Ramya mari (@ramyaswathi26) July 1, 2023
Attention
NRIs turned fraudsters. Fraudsters turned NRIs
Your passports can be revoked!Full marks to Sibash Kabiraj, IPS, presently posted as RPO Chandigarh who has taken up a laudable initiative of ensuring justice for abandoned brides. #IPS Delivershttps://t.co/cfff1SYs5Y
— IPS Association (@IPS_Association) January 29, 2019
Sham Marriages: Revenge of the Brides – India Today
Q and A:
Where are his parents staying in India? Go there with local police and media but do not go alone as they may kill you or harm you also. Record those conversations and uploading into social media and at least he should watch it and get scared and return to India. Do not leave his parents back home.
Subscriber: Sir can I convert my son’s citizenship or what can I do to save him is there any way
Look for options to give up USA passport and citizenship and get Indian passport. You have to do research on this. Don’t trust anyone and don’t pay any money to any brokers for that job either in India or US
Subscriber: My son was born there and what about his Custody how can I save my child from him
If he can’t sign for your son’s USA passport renewal and expires, USA embassy in India take your son into their custody and if he applies from USA for the custody, he will win the case. Sorry sister, it’s a very sad tricky situation.
He cannot renew your H4 Visa. All you need to do is, contact the H-1B Petitioner of that H-1B person and tell them that he is absconding, either renew your H4 visa or stop renewing his H-1B petition. Send those emails to Dr. S. Jaishankar @DrSJaishankar India government official External Affairs Minister of India. Member of Parliament (Rajya Sabha) from Gujarat State.
https://twitter.com/DrSJaishankar?s=20
https://www.lawyersclubindia.com/experts/husband-absconded-after-signing-an-mou-651326.asp do research on how to bring him back to India and get arrested by police in India. In USA, courts and law enforcement support the accused is what my research shows.
https://www.uscis.gov/report-fraud/uscis-tip-form also enter his details here, write in simple words H-1B husband domestic violence, absconding.
email me your complete case details. Did you call 911 in while in USA? did you report about his violence anywhere? Do you have any evidence of his violence? did you record audio or video of his harassment while in the USA? There are several things in India law but ultimately criminals are winning in any case either h1b petitioners beating H1bs or h1bs beating H4s in the USA.
1 give a police complaint. 2 see to that his name pop up in airports in India — it is called red alert, this is NOT easy unless have power to influence ministers.
2 go to media and cover your face but expose his name, photos and his parents. 3 book his parents into the case and make sure they also get arrested if he is arrested.
3 show proof of dowry and file dowry harassment case also.
4 focus on your job there is most important.
5 mainly inform to his employer and clients in the USA
vasundhara
KUMAR EXCLUSIVE sir i have two doubts according to my case can you please help 1.sir if my husband apply divorce in usa and the us government won’t ask my openion on child custody too?( Because I completed about him and his parents harrasment in USA and i didn’t ran away from house with kid he only left us in India) 2.if he black mail me that I won’t sign on child’s passport renewal before divorce what can I do my father and mother both are in politics can minister do anything in this issue.(because citizenship change thay are asking either father permission or full custody) 3. Complaining to usa and indian embassy about his blackmail will they help changing his citizenship
Answer by a subscriber
Ask her To take full custody of the child during divorce proceedings otherwise if he dont sign she could not renew the child Passport without full custody of the child.better ask her to Inform to us Embassy by applying to child passport that the father dont sign for passport renewal and he is asking to sign for divorce to sign for passport renewal
To DrSJaishankar SIR, Help needed: US child passport renewal, father, refused to sign as parent
Telugu video: Indians Divorce Issues on H-1B in USA & H4 in India || KE
https://youtu.be/mmtiszrB8vs
Divorce Part One VIDEO || Kumar Exclusive
https://youtu.be/d7HO37eE5QQ
Divorce Part TWO VIDEO || Kumar Exclusive
https://youtu.be/VSBAS2xse0k
Telugu video: H4 Domestic violence –how to report bad H-1B Husband | Kumar TIPs || Kumar Exclusive
https://youtu.be/Bp046zmTJNw
Telugu video2: H4 Domestic violence –how to report bad H-1B Husband | Kumar TIPs || Kumar Exclusive
https://youtu.be/_iB3JN-YgFM
H-1B NRI Husband Kuchi Praveen Kumar( Husband) hiding or Absconding – Victim requested to post this.
7 Things A Husband Must NEVER Say To His Visa Wife And Rub In Her Dependent Status
h-visa_practice_advisory-ac-dg
Neerja Saraph vs Jayant V.Saraph on 6 October, 1994
YOU must consider reporting to USCIS from INDIA.- USCIS online but they may take action little slow.
https://www.uscis.gov/report-fraud/uscis-tip-form
provide them all the detail and your contact numbers to reach you by USCIS if required.
FOCUS on your financial independence and kids future rather than waste time on the chasing the criminal. I mean, report about him but do not waste your time in coming back to USA on F1 or B1 visas to meeting your criminal husband. There is no point in meeting him once he disconnected or departed from you. You have to book him under the law and law takes it own course.
Telugu video: H4 Domestic violence –how to report bad H-1B Husband | Kumar TIPs || Kumar Exclusive
https://youtu.be/Bp046zmTJNw
H4 Domestic violence –how to report bad H-1B Husband || Kumar Exclusive
https://youtu.be/X5JnTz2a2Fk
One of my haters acted as a subscriber sent this site and I do not know how far it is true.
https://www.sakhi.org/south-asian-womens-organizations-us/
Best hey are united and if the situation is not resolved this manner contact:
With the help of the sister and/or her family, simply send the true copy of his warrant to his known address by FedEx with signature requirement. That will be legal service. USA law then kicks in, otherwise USA law cannot act. Good wishes to all
One of the H4 Victims/subscribers told me this “Arrest warrant will need to give on H-1B Cruel husband. It’s not easy. When required if he does not come to court then only it can be done.”
I welcome your suggestions or HELP on this for Indian sisters or victims out there.
H4 Domestic violence – how to report bad H-1B Husband
Abandoned Indian wives and US born kids in India.
https://www.ilrc.org/sites/default/files/resources/h-visa_practice_advisory-ac-dg.pdf
https://www.lawyersclubindia.com/experts/husband-absconded-after-signing-an-mou-651326.asp
do research on how to bring him back to India and get arrested by police in India. In USA, courts and law enforcement support the accused is what my research shows.
Help the Abandoned H4 visa spouses
What is USA attorney say about this?
read the below and watch this video.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dV3DJtoihY0
The law does not provided a remedy for the h4 visa holders to stay in the United States. Our petition online is trying to remedy to that. Please sign, share and subscribe to our channel. #immigration #uscis #unitedstates #h1b Sign the petition online https://www.change.org/abandonedh4vis… Also sign the H4 visa aged out children https://www.change.org/H4childrenageout Abused spouses under H4 visas are actually at the mercy of their spouses. The VAWA petitions apply to those who are married to a US citizen and permanent resident and U Visas to those who are victims of domestic violence. But how about those who are mentally abused? Unless there is a situation of domestic violence, the law does not presently completely protect the victims. There is an ability to obtain a work permit (EAD) as an abused spouse, but no ability to maintain status unless a separate status such as a student visa. This means that the H4 visa holder is left at the mercy of the system and cannot really be legally present in the US. Those who are emotionally abused have no way to continue a legal stay in the US! The situation is often worsened when H1B abandons H4 visa holder and files for divorce and custody in USA as kids are naturalized USA citizens and come under USA jurisdiction and the abused H4 visa victim is either at verge/risk of deportation or has to come on tourist visa as there is no other way an H4 visa holder can make an entry to United States. Thus it leads to another emotional trauma as protective parent is separated from the child because of not being able to sustain a legal status in USA. We request that the law is changed to protect the H4 visa holder status on humanitarian grounds. The situation is unbearable for many.
Americans comments on this.
This is incase want to give divorce even before departing to India but I do not think it is easy for H-1Bs and H4s or non immigrant visas. This is applicable for GC and USC.
Understanding divorce process in the United States for Indian immigrants – YouTube
Follower sent:
Respected Kumar,
All 4 I saw quickly.
3rd video I will watch full a lady interview.No solutions.I do receive emails from domestic voilence issues. Heart breaks ? to read those emails.Eyes full of ? tears.
H-1B accused Husband: Chittamuru Pavan Kumar Reddy
https://twitter.com/Abbnhi_NGO?s=20
Dear sir,
I need to serve court notices to a person named Pavan Kumar Chittamuru , hiding at USA.
A non bailable arrest warrant also has been issued against him by the district court, Nellore, Andhra Pradesh. Kindly suggest me ways to trace him out and serve the court notices.
Also please suggest me the ways to see to it, that his visa doesn’t get extended.
Pls find the attached copy of the non bailable arrest warrant.
Regards
His name is Chittamuru Pavan Kumar Reddy
S/o sai Krishna Reddy.
Few sources tell that he is working at
Express Scripts as
SAP BI TECHNICA LEAD.
Express way, maumee, Ohio
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#telugu video: VISA WIVES, where is GOD? Part2 || Kumar Exclusive
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Telugu video: Indians Divorce Issues on H-1B in USA & H4 in India || KE
https://youtu.be/mmtiszrB8vs
Divorce Part One VIDEO || Kumar Exclusive
https://youtu.be/d7HO37eE5QQ
Divorce Part TWO VIDEO || Kumar Exclusive
https://youtu.be/VSBAS2xse0k
Telugu video: H4 Domestic violence –how to report bad H-1B Husband | Kumar TIPs || Kumar Exclusive
https://youtu.be/Bp046zmTJNw
Telugu video2: H4 Domestic violence –how to report bad H-1B Husband | Kumar TIPs || Kumar Exclusive
https://youtu.be/_iB3JN-YgFM
March 23rd 2025 USA
Names changed:
Subject: Domestic Violence Among Indians in the USA – Awareness Needed
Dear Kumar Garu,
Please consider making a video on domestic violence in the USA, especially within the Indian community. I want to share a real incident about my coworker, Mrs. Roja, who has been struggling with emotional and physical abuse whenever her in-laws visit.
Initially, everything seems fine, but as weeks pass, tension builds up. She becomes overwhelmed, frustrated, and starts lashing out at work. People who are unaware of her home situation make harsh comments, worsening her mental state. The fights between Roja and her husband, Subba Rao, escalate, and the entire family, including their children, sides against her. She falls into deep depression, calling her parents in India with complaints. No one in the family is willing to compromise.
To ease tensions, they plan a long vacation, and soon after, her mother-in-law, Durga Lakshmi, leaves earlier than planned. Roja slowly recovers — only for the same cycle to repeat in a year or two when the in-laws visit again.
One time, Roja suffered a severe back injury. She confided in a couple of desi colleagues that Subba Rao kicked her after his mother, Durga Lakshmi, complained about something minor related to cooking. She fell backward and injured her tailbone. But at work, she told everyone she had a snow-skating accident to cover up the truth.
Many such incidents happen in our community due to a lack of mutual respect, understanding of the law, and cultural conditioning. In India, these issues might be overlooked, but here in the USA, the consequences are severe — yet people fail to realize this.
Women, irrespective of age, often do not support each other, which makes these situations worse. Family gatherings, instead of fostering love and connection, sometimes become sources of conflict and suffering. It would be better if people prioritized their well-being instead of spending money on travel just to fight and ruin each other’s peace of mind.
This is just one real-life example, but there are many similar cases. I hope you can create an educational video on this issue to spread awareness.
Thanks,
A Concerned Coworker
Dear [Sender],
Thank you for reaching out. Your coworker Mrs. Roja is facing a serious issue, and it’s important she knows that help is available in the USA. Many Indian women on H-4, F-1, and other dependent visas fear speaking up due to family pressure, financial dependency, or immigration concerns.
Please encourage her to reach out for help:
📞 Emergency? Call 911
📞 Domestic Violence Helpline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
📞 South Asian Support (SAKHI, SAHARA, etc.)
She can also document the abuse and explore legal options like restraining orders or VAWA-based Green Cards. If she is afraid of deportation, she can consult an immigration attorney for free via nonprofit legal aid services.
I will be making an educational video on this topic to spread awareness. Thank you for caring and raising this issue. Let’s help women break the cycle of abuse!
Best,
Kumar Exclusive
Here’s a professional and respectful sample letter your follower can use to address USCIS and DHS, detailing her situation and requesting support/action:
[Your Full Name]
[Your Address in India]
[Email Address]
[Phone Number]
[Date]
To
U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS)
Washington, D.C., USA
Cc:
U.S. Department of Homeland Security (DHS)
Washington, D.C., USA
Subject: Request for Support and Investigation into Domestic Violence by H-1B Spouse – Former H-4 Dependent
Dear USCIS and DHS Officials,
I am writing to formally request your support and intervention regarding a matter of domestic violence and immigration-related abuse that I have endured while residing in the United States.
I was on an H-4 dependent visa, residing in the U.S. with my spouse, who holds an H-1B visa. During my stay, I was subjected to mental, emotional, and physical abuse, which compelled me to leave the United States and return to India for my safety and well-being.
Despite my departure, I wish to formally bring this matter to your attention. The accused individual continues to live in the U.S. and is employed under the H-1B program. I am concerned that his actions may violate both immigration and criminal laws, and I respectfully urge the appropriate agencies to review his case, as I believe his continued presence and employment in the United States pose a risk and misuse the privilege of a U.S. work visa.
I am seeking your guidance and assistance in:
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Understanding what protections or recourse may be available to me under U.S. immigration law (e.g., U visa or VAWA relief)
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Requesting an investigation into my former spouse’s immigration records and eligibility in light of this abuse
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Ensuring that immigrant women on dependent visas like myself are protected and not silenced or stranded due to systemic gaps
I am ready to provide any evidence, affidavits, or documentation to support my case and cooperate with law enforcement or immigration authorities as needed.
I kindly request that this letter be considered seriously and forwarded to the appropriate officers within USCIS and DHS.
Thank you for your time, compassion, and attention to this matter.
Sincerely,
[Full Name]
Former H-4 Visa Holder
[Contact Details]
Friday, May 23, 2025 USA:
I have reviewed a comprehensive H4 domestic violence case, including supporting police case numbers. In the interest of safety and to avoid potential legal repercussions, all names and identifying details have been removed before publication.