H4 Domestic violence

In first place, Please AVOID NRI MATCHES.

Non Reliable Indians marriage proposals. Otherwise, your life suck in a foreign land.

REMEMBER: Ignorance of laws and immigration laws is NOT an excuse.

The above picture speaks a lot. Indians in India thinks that since she married to an H-1B, her life is SET in America. But it is the reverse case, her life get screwed up in a foreign country either stupid Indian husband beats or not. That is H4 curse Visa or any non immigrant dependent visas. Because H-1B= indentured servitude, dependents of Indentured servitude = direct hell on the earth. I do not know how many people understand this from the other side of the globe while reading this.

H4 Domestic violence –how to report bad H-1B Husband 


Honestly, no one understand your situation. Neither the government of USA nor India. You have to fight for yourself. BE STONG and BE BOLD. 

Here you go:

The main culprits are parents of a girl child in India. Because the parents of India want a foreign based son-in-law for their daughter without enquiring anything about him or the USA immigration issues. So that lead to this disasters situation. The world is men dominated society and India or Asia is completely MEN dominated. With this mindset, how come parents send their daughter(s) with an unknow person to abroad? What happens if that person beat your daughter? Does she educated or trained to complain to local police in that country? If not, what for that marriage? Sex slavery?

I think or guess that both USA and India are cheating the Indian women in both in USA and INDIA especially those are on non immigrant visas and facing domestic violence’s in a foreign country. First she loses her immigration status for complaining against her husband who is a primary applicant. Secondly she loses her children to husband. third, deported from the country. Not just H4, any dependent visa is a disastrous visa in the USA. 

Domestic Violence – Subscriber’s story

Several Indian women on Dependent Visas(example H4 Visa, primary is H-1B work permit visa) are living in the USA. Since India is a male dominated society hence Indian women also work like slaves to their husbands in the USA. One of such woman kicked out to India by a husband by telling lies that he got a job in India and coming to India in the next flight and disconnected her and his daughter or sons. He stayed back in the USA.

Issue is, he H-1B applied for divorce where H4 Indian woman is in India and court awarded the divorce to them.


On the instructions of his parents and sister he used to beat me. In 2009 Jan when me and my daughter came to USA for the second time, he beat me very badly that I bleed a lot. He used harass me sexually physically and with irritating language or foul language.   One day he locked me and my daughter in the bathroom as guided by his sister and later some other day he locked me in the room and he kept the 2 yrs old baby outside the room and he did a  marital rape and harassed me a lot.  The kid started crying as she was alone in the midnight I hardly get rid of him and attended my child after an hour. he used to warn me if I go for police he would harm the kid and my father. I was scared and I did inform the USA police.

ABOUT THE RENEWAL OF HER US BORN CHILD PASSPORT :   My Child passport has been expired on Jan 2015. I contacted my husband through email but he never responded. Aa I already went for passport renewal and then they asked for fathers signature or ds 3035 form signed by the father. He did not give me any form but the attorney in the letter mentioned that he gave me the form. That was a false statement. Yet the child passport has to be renewed.

ABOUT THE CASES IN INDIA about HUSBAND  : 498- a Which was a dowry harassment case .  Section 9 Hindu Marriage Act and Maintenance case. He escaped to USA  before filing the charge sheet in the court which was another crime offense.

There is a famous whistleblower American who projects himself as he tries to help Indian victims also cheated her by taking money and could not do anything to Indians. He is simply a bogus guy won’t help anyone. he also claims H-1Bs are low skilled replace Americans but same time, he is cheating several H-1Bs and H4 victims.

Careful when you trust Americans and Indians in the USA. Including attorneys in USA and lawyers in India.

7 Things A Husband Must NEVER Say To His Visa Wife And Rub In Her Dependent Status


Neerja Saraph vs Jayant V.Saraph on 6 October, 1994


YOU must consider  reporting to USCIS from INDIA.- USCIS online but they may take action little slow.
provide them all the detail and your contact numbers to reach you by USCIS if required.

 FOCUS on your financial independence and kids future rather than waste time on the chasing the criminal. I mean, report about him but do not waste your time in coming back to USA on F1 or B1 visas to meeting your criminal husband. There is no point in meeting him once he disconnected or departed from you.  You have to book him under the law and law takes it own course. 

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One of my haters acted as a subscriber sent this site and I do not know how far it is true. 


Best hey are united and if the situation is not resolved this manner contact:

With the help of the sister and/or her family, simply send the true copy of his warrant to his known address by FedEx with signature requirement. That will be legal service. USA law then kicks in, otherwise USA law cannot act. Good wishes to all

One of the H4 Victims/subscribers told me this “Arrest warrant will need to give on H-1B Cruel husband. It’s not easy. When required if he does not come to court then only it can be done.”

I welcome your suggestions or HELP on this for Indian sisters or victims out there.

H4 Domestic violence – how to report bad H-1B Husband

Abandoned Indian wives and US born kids in India.



Help the Abandoned H4 visa spouses


What is USA attorney say about this?

read the below and watch this video.


Shah Peerally, Esq

The law does not provided a remedy for the h4 visa holders to stay in the United States. Our petition online is trying to remedy to that. Please sign, share and subscribe to our channel. #immigration #uscis #unitedstates #h1b Sign the petition online https://www.change.org/abandonedh4vis… Also sign the H4 visa aged out children https://www.change.org/H4childrenageout Abused spouses under H4 visas are actually at the mercy of their spouses. The VAWA petitions apply to those who are married to a US citizen and permanent resident and U Visas to those who are victims of domestic violence. But how about those who are mentally abused? Unless there is a situation of domestic violence, the law does not presently completely protect the victims. There is an ability to obtain a work permit (EAD) as an abused spouse, but no ability to maintain status unless a separate status such as a student visa. This means that the H4 visa holder is left at the mercy of the system and cannot really be legally present in the US. Those who are emotionally abused have no way to continue a legal stay in the US! The situation is often worsened when H1B abandons H4 visa holder and files for divorce and custody in USA as kids are naturalized USA citizens and come under USA jurisdiction and the abused H4 visa victim is either at verge/risk of deportation or has to come on tourist visa as there is no other way an H4 visa holder can make an entry to United States. Thus it leads to another emotional trauma as protective parent is separated from the child because of not being able to sustain a legal status in USA. We request that the law is changed to protect the H4 visa holder status on humanitarian grounds. The situation is unbearable for many.

Americans comments on this. 


This is incase want to give divorce even before departing to India but I do not think it is easy for H-1Bs and H4s or non immigrant visas. This is applicable for GC and USC.

Understanding divorce process in the United States for Indian immigrants – YouTube